On my web site, I posted a story (with permission) a while back from a book called “You 2”, by Price Pritchett. It’s a brilliant description of the human condition and why so many people are discovering life coaching as a process to support them in helping to create the life they long for. Here is the story again.
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“There’s a small fly burning out the last of its short life’s energies in a futile attempt to fly through the glass of the windowpane. The whining wings tell the poignant story of the fly’s strategy — try harder.

But it’s not working.

The frenzied effort offers no hope for survival. Ironically, the struggle is part of the trap. It is impossible for the fly to try hard enough to succeed at breaking through the glass. Nevertheless, this little insect has staked its life on reaching its goal through raw effort and determination.

This fly is doomed. It will die there on the window sill.

Across the room, ten steps away, the door is open. Ten seconds of flying time and this small creature could reach the outside world it seeks. With only a fraction of the effort now being wasted, it could be free of this self-imposed trap. The breakthrough possibility is there. It would be so easy.

Why doesn’t the fly try another approach, something dramatically different? How did it get so locked in on the idea that this particular route, and determined effort, offer the most promise for success? What logic is there in continuing, until death, to seek a breakthrough with “more of the same”?

No doubt this approach makes sense to the fly. Regrettably, it’s an idea that will kill.

“Trying harder” isn’t necessarily the solution to achieving more. It may not offer any real promise for getting what you want out of life. Sometimes, in fact, it’s a big part of the problem.”

– An excerpt from “You2 by Price Pritchett. Reprinted with full permission of PRITCHETT, LP. All Rights Are Reserved.

What are you working so hard at, sure that this strategy will lead to breakthrough and it is simply not working? If you have been doing the same thing over and over and over and yet, you are not achieving the results you want, what has to change to make a difference? Is doing more of the same the answer? Clearly not.

What haven’t you tried?

 

 

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