People don’t like it when you don’t buy into their judgment of you because you can no longer be controlled by them. Ever notice that they use judgment to get you to do what they want you to do?
Acting from guilt is not freedom, beauties! It’s a wonderful way to distract yourself from choosing for YOU because that has been made very, very wrong in this reality.
Making judgment real and true and doing what is “expected” of you is what we have all been taught. Never mind that someone imposing their expectation on you is all about them but that’s ok. The point is you have been taught that to choose for you is selfish and very wrong.
But what if choosing for you is not a wrongness? What if that sets you free and freedom is one of the kindest gifts you can offer? When you set yourself free, what if you free everyone around you too? — feeling philisophical.